Ask Amy: Absence might make the heart grow fonder

Dear Amy: For the past year, I have been in a "flirtationship" (so to speak) with a guy. We talk almost every day.

Ask Amy: Address family betrayal directly

Dear Amy: My husband Stefan's large family is tightly knit. They aggressively attempt to spend every celebratory occasion with us. We don't mind sometimes, but avoiding their constant intrusions was a major reason we moved to another state.

Ask Amy: Designated driver takes the long walk home

Dear Amy: I know that "friends don't let friends drive drunk," but the last few times I've been in a situation in which I've offered to drive or call a cab for friends who'd been drinking, they've insisted they were

Hot-tubbing tests relationship

Dear Amy: My live-in boyfriend of five years has recently rekindled a friendship with a girl he knew in grade school. Twice in the last week, he has invited her to our home to play pool, have a lot of drinks and soak in our hot tub.

Ask Amy: Teen partying requires strong parenting

Dear Amy: My oldest son is a junior in high school (almost 17).

Ask Amy: Parents need hygiene help

Dear Amy: I am lucky enough to have both parents still living and in general good health. They live independently in senior housing. I realize that with age comes a certain amount of "slowing down," however, one thing that seems to be slipping a

Ask Amy: 'Help' becomes family affair

Dear Amy: My wife left me. I still live near her family. Her family has taken my side because she left me, even though she and I have tried our best to avoid the blame game.

Ask Amy: Nanny seeks 'real" job

Dear Amy: Last year I got a full-time job as a nanny for a wonderful family with two amazing kids. This family is supportive of me. They have been gracious and accommodating, and they have come to treat me as one of their own. They've expressed a des

Ask Amy: Dad's snooping equals trespassing

Dear Amy: After almost 20 years of marriage (half of it miserable), I am just days away from a final decree. We kept the process civil, but we are not able to have a conversation. He suffers from a mood disorder, which destroyed our relationship and conti

Grandma concerned about daughter's behavior with kids in house

Dear Amy: I am the grandmother of three beautiful children, ages 4, 6 and 10, whom I live with and help raise.

Ask Amy: Father prone to angry rages

Dear Amy: My father is in his 50s, and my sister and I are in our 20s. He has always been a loving, involved father -- smart, witty, caring and a great provider -- and also the angriest person we've ever known.

Younger sister wants to be queen -- for a day

Dear Amy: I am the younger of two daughters. My sister is three years older, and we are very close. She is away at college. You'd think that since she is away from home, I would get more of my parents' focus. But that has not happened.

Infertility becomes a problem for the clan

Dear Amy: My son's wife has finally decided (after three years of trying to have a baby) that she just doesn't want to be a parent.

Ask Amy: Marriage on a timetable can create pressure

Dear Amy: My boyfriend and I have been together since we were 16. We are now 22 years old and have graduated from college and are working in our professional fields.

This 'Modern Family' should embrace child

Dear Amy: My dad and I have a mostly estranged relationship. He was absent most of my life, and now we only communicate through an occasional text message. He is now married to wife No. 3, and up until a few months ago she seemed like a nice enough person

Ask Amy: Red flags are flying over online relationship

Dear Amy: I met my boyfriend online three months ago. We have not met yet (in person) because he is deployed in Afghanistan.

Husband tries to broker peace

Dear Amy: More than 30 years ago my fundamentalist parents did everything they could to prevent my wife and me from marrying (we were atheists). My brothers either kept neutral or sided with my parents. My wife would have nothing to do with them after we

Ask Amy: In this family, the enabling runs rampant

Dear Amy: My sister's husband is an alcoholic. He makes half-hearted attempts to get treatment, and then goes on a binge. He gets verbally abusive, so my sister shows up at my place to crash for a few days, until he's sober again.

Ask Amy: Teen victim looks for answers on rape

Dear Amy: Recently I was shopping and ran into one of my older brother's friends. He is 19 years old. I am 16.

Ask Amy: Boyfriend's lack of job irritates girlfriend

Dear Amy: My boyfriend is a loving, creative and sensitive person who is 15 years my senior. (I am in my mid-30s.) When we met, I was going through a hard time emotionally and he was going through a hard time financially. He helped me out by being support

Ask Amy: Hygiene issues stump workers

Dear Amy: There is a lady who works in our office who never washes her hands after using the toilet. She comes out of the stall, turns the water on and off quickly so it sounds as if she is washing them.

Ask Amy: When friendship fades, discuss it or exit quietly

Dear Amy: I've been best friends with "Molly" since we were children. We're now in our early 20s.

Ask Amy: Affair shakes up law firm

Dear Amy: I work for a law firm. A couple of years ago, it came to light that one of the partners was having an affair with a firm lawyer. Both are married, and he is her supervisor.

Ask Amy: Worried aunt should tread lightly

Dear Amy: I have a niece who is 18. She and I are "friends" on Facebook.

Ask Amy: Skin-deep beauty causes teen discomfort

Dear Amy: I have a friend who is 17 years old. She is absolutely beautiful from head to toe. Everyone who knows her agree that she is a beautiful person and should change nothing about her appearance.

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