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Pam Kallsen: People and memories are more precious now

Sunday, Oct. 21, 2007 | 12:24 AM

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Pam Kallsen enjoys life more today. When she goes to a concert, she splurges on the best seats.

Cancer changed her.

First she was scared, then she got mad.

"I was just angry that cancer had invaded my body," Kallsen said.

"I'm a good person. I do good things. ... I don't smoke and don't drink to excess."

Click for multimedia INTERACTIVE GRAPHIC: Listen and watch as Tracy Correa tells her story, and four Valley breast cancer survivors talk about their experiences. There also is visual information about the disease.

Pam Kallsen

Age: 56

Occupation: Executive director of the Marjaree Mason Center (domestic violence shelter)

Diagnosed: March 1995 at age 43.

How detected: Annual mammogram. She never had a lump.

Stage: I of an aggressive form of cancer

Treatment: Single breast lumpectomy, lymph nodes removed followed by chemotherapy and radiation

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Kallsen's treatment lasted nearly eight long months -- surgery, then three months of chemotherapy, six weeks of radiation and three more months of chemotherapy.

She lost much of her hair but missed only two days of work while undergoing treatment. At the time, she was vice president of executive services at Community Medical Centers.

Cancer taught her who her true friends are and what matters.

One of her biggest supporters was her husband, Gene, who cried with her in the bathroom when her hair fell out.

She realized her own strength.

"Now when I encounter difficult things in my life, I think, 'I fought breast cancer.' "

People and memories matter more today, Kallsen said.

"The memory sharing is more important than the memory of gifts," she said.

"Life is very precious and fragile."


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